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fajolu adeshina posted a blog postAggravated sexual abuse
By Force or Threat. knowingly causes anotherperson to engage in a sexual act -(1) by using force against that other person; or(2) by threatening or placing that other person in fear thatany person will be subjected to death, serious bodily injury, orkidnapping;or attempts to do so, shall be fined under this title, imprisonedfor any term of years or life, or both. By Other Means. - Whoever, in the special maritime andterritorial jurisdiction of the United States or in a Federalprison, or in any…See More
fajolu adeshina left a comment for fajolu adeshina"Good Day Sir/Ma, sometimes i looked around me i seen how MEN maltreated WOMEN, abuses, Rapes,even sex without fear of creator (God) i feel to become Lawyer or someone who can aid society.But due to poor family and lack of mentor i couldn't meet…"
fajolu adeshina commented on fajolu adeshina's blog post What is destiny? Is there some thing called free will? Part 2"Everything that happens in the world is made to work out according to God’s purpose. Evil exists, but it is not allowed to thwart God’s providence. God uses even sinful men for His purposes. “The king's heart is in the hand of…"
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Be in any FC fans, i believe to your work,your family,pals,foes, societies your are weapons. your own can be positive side or negative side. But all i knew was you are tool to your work,your family,pals,foes, societies your are weapons. think of it
fajolu adeshina left a comment for fajolu adeshina"Things You Can't Do
1. You can't change your partner's behavior. You cannot stop your partner's violence toward you. He is in control of his actions just as you are in control of yours.
2. You can't stay in an abusive…"
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- hate Child Abuse and Domestic Violence
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- small city with big visions
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Aggravated sexual abuse
By Force or Threat. knowingly causes anotherContinue
person to engage in a sexual act -
(1) by using force against that other person; or
(2) by threatening or placing that other person in fear that
any person will be subjected to death, serious bodily injury, or
kidnapping;or attempts to do so, shall be fined under this title, imprisoned
for any term of years or life, or both.
By Other Means. - Whoever, in the special maritime and
territorial jurisdiction of…
Posted on February 26, 2010 at 0:56
What is destiny? Is there some thing called free will? Part 2
It must be said at this point that once a successful
person, who does not believe in destiny, starts
experiencing failures, he slowly begins to accept the
existence of fate. Perhaps, the experiences of people
are the strongest arguments in favor of destiny.
There is another school of thought which seems to be
the most logical line of thinking. It says you are
free to take the first step, but as soon as you… Continue
Posted on February 25, 2010 at 0:09 — 1 Comment
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Posted on February 24, 2010 at 3:40
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- At 8:57pm on March 30, 2010, OLUOMO gave fajolu adeshina a gift…
- At 0:50 on February 26, 2010, fajolu adeshina said…
- Good Day Sir/Ma, sometimes i looked around me i seen how MEN maltreated WOMEN, abuses, Rapes,even sex without fear of creator (God) i feel to become Lawyer or someone who can aid society.But due to poor family and lack of mentor i couldn't meet up. i found my self as jobless, i looked at my self as MAN WITH SKILLS BUT WITHOUT DIRECTION.
Reader don't feel sad or think how you can aid me, all am want you (reader) to do is to help your society in one way and other. Some Criminals does it know the element of true of the crime they committed that it is reasons am passing this to you to read, understanding and enlighten people.
- At 22:00 on February 25, 2010,
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- At 2:02 on February 24, 2010, fajolu adeshina said…
- Things You Can't Do
1. You can't change your partner's behavior. You cannot stop your partner's violence toward you. He is in control of his actions just as you are in control of yours.
2. You can't stay in an abusive relationship and be safe. Without intervention, family violence becomes more frequent and severe.
3. You can't "do the right thing" to please the abuser. It is not about you. The choice to abuse you is lies with the abuser.
4. You can't save the relationship by yourself. You can go to counseling to get help for yourself and you can "be" whatever you think it takes to make things better, but it takes two people to make a relationship work.
5.Don't blame yourself for your own victimization. It's not your fault!
6. You can't forgive and forget. It only gives the abuser permission to strike again. If the abuser does not suffer consequences, he has no reason to stop.
7. You can't shield your partner from the consequences of abusive behavior. "He really didn't mean it officer..." Helping him avoid jail is NOT helping him. He'll promise anything to avoid the consequences of his violence toward you. Don't further risk your life to help someone who is hurting you.
8. Don't respond to violence with more violence. Violence is not an appropriate or helpful response to another person's actions or words. However, if you are in extreme fear for your life, you have the right to defend yourself.
- At 2:01 on February 24, 2010, fajolu adeshina said…
- Domestic Violence - Do's and Don'ts
Things You Can Do:
1. Talk to your partner, if it is safe. Explain how you want to be treated.
2.Leave, either temporarily or permanently. Leaving temporarily may send a message to the batterer that you will not allow yourself to be mistreated. He may honestly want to seek help, but unless there is a consequence to their actions (in this case, your leaving) the batterer has no reason to change. If the abuse continues, it is your responsibility to protect yourself by leaving permanently.
3. Get Help. It is very difficult to extract yourself from a violent situation by yourself. Talk about your situation. Silence about abuse is what keeps women trapped in the cycle. Talk to your family, friends, counselors, physicians, clergy, and neighbors. You'll get the information you need to make sound decisions about your future, and gain control of your life.
4. Know the law, it's on your side. Assault is a crime. Arrest and prosecution are known deterrents to continued family violence. A restraining order can be a useful tool because it excludes the offender from the victim's home and/or place of work or school. Offenders can be required to participate in counseling or anger management classes as part of a protective order. Emergency protective orders can be issued when the victim fears for his/her safety, even though violence has not occurred.
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