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Kemi Lawal Oyeleke Circle
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FAMILY AND HOME:This group is set up to encourage people who want successful and happy marital home. I believe we all can share our experiences and encourage each other.
Website: http://www.lagosians.com/group/kemilawaloyeleke
Members: 36
Latest Activity: Nov 13, 2010
why did i get married?`
THIS IS ONE BIG QUESTION 95%ON MARRIED COUPLES KEEP ASKING NOWADAYS. WHERE RE ALL THE SWEET PROMISES MY HUSBAND MADE TO ME WHEN WE WERE STILL IN COUTSHIP? WHAT HAS HAPPENED TO ALL THE ATTENTION HE USED TO GIVE TO ME? HE CLOSE FROM WORK ON TIME JUST SEE VISIT ME AND SEE MY FACE. HE WOULD DRIVE 10KM EVERY EVENING JUST TO MAKE ME TALK TO HIM..........................................
SHE WOULD TELL ME I WAS THE SWEETEST HORNEY IN HER LIFE. SHE WANTED MY PRESENCE EVERYDAY.
THE DAY SHE PROMISED TO BE MY WIFE I COULDN'T HOLD MY JOY. I QUICKLY CALLED AND SHARED THE GOOD NEWS TO ALL MY FRIENDS. I BOASTED ABOUT HER. NOW SHE HATES DOING IT WITH ME. I CAUGHT HER TWICE HAVING A SECRET ROMANCE ON PHONE WITH HER UNKNOWN LOVER. WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO DO AS A MAN THAT I HAVEN'T DONE? SHE DOESN'T LACK ANYTHING THAT A WOMAN DESIRES IN LIFE. I VE TAKEN HER TO DIFFERENT PARTS OF THE WORLD ON VACATION JUST TO MAKE HER HAPPY.......................................................................
HE SHOWERED ME WITH SO MUCH GIFTS THAT MY ROOM COULD CONTAIN.
NOW WE ARE MARRIED! HE IS HARDLY AT HOME. HE COMES BACK SO LATE AND SO TIRED. SOMETIMES DRUNK AND SOMETIMES SMELLING OF FEMALE PERFUMES. HE DENIES IT ALL THE TIME. HE HARDLY MAKES LOVE TO ME. HE PICKS OFFENCE AT ANY CHANCE.
STRANGE FEMALE CALLS COULD HARDLY LET HIS PHONE BE. HE STORES THEM WITH NAMES LIKE "MY MECHANIC". " THE OFFICE ELETRICIAN". OUR PRITER", IYKE THE SUPPLIER". THESE RE FEMALES WITH INCREDIBLE NAMES...............................................
SHE COMPLAINS THAT I CAN'T SATISFY HER IN BED THESE DAYS. ITS UNLIKE HER WHEN WE NEWLY GOT MARRIED. SHE WOULD PRAISE ME AND CALLED ME A SUPERMAN. I ENJOYED THIS NICKNAMES THAT MAKES ME FELT THAT I HAD ALL THAT COULD GIVE MY WIFE THE DESIRED SATISFACTION. SHE NOW SLEEPS IN THE CHILDREN'S ROOM. I WAS SURPRISED WHEN SHE MISTAKINGLY CALLED ME BAYO THE DAY SHE AGREED TO MAKE LOVE TO ME. WHO IS BAYO FOR GOD'S SAKE? ............................................................
THE OTHER DAY HE BEAT ME UP SIMPLY BCOS I CONFRONTED HIM WITH HIS SHIRT STAINED WITH LIPSTICK. HE ALMOST THREW ME OUT OF THE HOUSE. HE TOLD ME HE HAS THE RIGHT TO MARRY ANOTHER WIFE IF HE CHOSES TO. THE CHILDREN'S SCHOOL FEES ARE NOT YET PAID BUT HE HANGS OUT EVERY NIGHT WITH STRANGE WOMEN AND WASTE HIS MONEY ON THEM.....................WHY DID I GET MARRIED?..........................
WE HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR OVER 5YEARS NOW STILL BELIEVING GOD FOR THE FRUIT OF THE WOMB BUT I HARDLY SLEEP EACH NIGHT FOR HIS COMPLAINT OF ME NOT BEEN ABLE TO GIVE HIM A CHILD. IS IT ALWAYS THE FAULT OF THE WOMAN? I WENT FOR MEDICAL CHECKS AND WAS TOLD AM FINE BUT HE HAS REFUSED TO DO SAME SO WE CAN TAKLE THE PROBLEM. I AGREED HE HAD A CHILD FROM ANOTHER WOMAN SEVERAL YEARS AGO WHEN HE WAS MUCH YOUNGER. WE DON'T EAT TOGEHTER ANYMORE, WE DON'T BATHE TOGETHER ANYMORE, WE HARDLY GO OUT TOGETHER ANYMORE. IS THIS MARRIAGE?..............................................................
WE SHALL CONTINUE SOME OTHER TIME.
SHE WOULD TELL ME I WAS THE SWEETEST HORNEY IN HER LIFE. SHE WANTED MY PRESENCE EVERYDAY.
THE DAY SHE PROMISED TO BE MY WIFE I COULDN'T HOLD MY JOY. I QUICKLY CALLED AND SHARED THE GOOD NEWS TO ALL MY FRIENDS. I BOASTED ABOUT HER. NOW SHE HATES DOING IT WITH ME. I CAUGHT HER TWICE HAVING A SECRET ROMANCE ON PHONE WITH HER UNKNOWN LOVER. WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO DO AS A MAN THAT I HAVEN'T DONE? SHE DOESN'T LACK ANYTHING THAT A WOMAN DESIRES IN LIFE. I VE TAKEN HER TO DIFFERENT PARTS OF THE WORLD ON VACATION JUST TO MAKE HER HAPPY.......................................................................
HE SHOWERED ME WITH SO MUCH GIFTS THAT MY ROOM COULD CONTAIN.
NOW WE ARE MARRIED! HE IS HARDLY AT HOME. HE COMES BACK SO LATE AND SO TIRED. SOMETIMES DRUNK AND SOMETIMES SMELLING OF FEMALE PERFUMES. HE DENIES IT ALL THE TIME. HE HARDLY MAKES LOVE TO ME. HE PICKS OFFENCE AT ANY CHANCE.
STRANGE FEMALE CALLS COULD HARDLY LET HIS PHONE BE. HE STORES THEM WITH NAMES LIKE "MY MECHANIC". " THE OFFICE ELETRICIAN". OUR PRITER", IYKE THE SUPPLIER". THESE RE FEMALES WITH INCREDIBLE NAMES...............................................
SHE COMPLAINS THAT I CAN'T SATISFY HER IN BED THESE DAYS. ITS UNLIKE HER WHEN WE NEWLY GOT MARRIED. SHE WOULD PRAISE ME AND CALLED ME A SUPERMAN. I ENJOYED THIS NICKNAMES THAT MAKES ME FELT THAT I HAD ALL THAT COULD GIVE MY WIFE THE DESIRED SATISFACTION. SHE NOW SLEEPS IN THE CHILDREN'S ROOM. I WAS SURPRISED WHEN SHE MISTAKINGLY CALLED ME BAYO THE DAY SHE AGREED TO MAKE LOVE TO ME. WHO IS BAYO FOR GOD'S SAKE? ............................................................
THE OTHER DAY HE BEAT ME UP SIMPLY BCOS I CONFRONTED HIM WITH HIS SHIRT STAINED WITH LIPSTICK. HE ALMOST THREW ME OUT OF THE HOUSE. HE TOLD ME HE HAS THE RIGHT TO MARRY ANOTHER WIFE IF HE CHOSES TO. THE CHILDREN'S SCHOOL FEES ARE NOT YET PAID BUT HE HANGS OUT EVERY NIGHT WITH STRANGE WOMEN AND WASTE HIS MONEY ON THEM.....................WHY DID I GET MARRIED?..........................
WE HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR OVER 5YEARS NOW STILL BELIEVING GOD FOR THE FRUIT OF THE WOMB BUT I HARDLY SLEEP EACH NIGHT FOR HIS COMPLAINT OF ME NOT BEEN ABLE TO GIVE HIM A CHILD. IS IT ALWAYS THE FAULT OF THE WOMAN? I WENT FOR MEDICAL CHECKS AND WAS TOLD AM FINE BUT HE HAS REFUSED TO DO SAME SO WE CAN TAKLE THE PROBLEM. I AGREED HE HAD A CHILD FROM ANOTHER WOMAN SEVERAL YEARS AGO WHEN HE WAS MUCH YOUNGER. WE DON'T EAT TOGEHTER ANYMORE, WE DON'T BATHE TOGETHER ANYMORE, WE HARDLY GO OUT TOGETHER ANYMORE. IS THIS MARRIAGE?..............................................................
WE SHALL CONTINUE SOME OTHER TIME.
Discussion Forum
SEX IN MARRIAGE 3 Replies
Started by kemi lawal oyeleke. Last reply by pauline mark Aug 29, 2009.
Is it true that only white/church wedding is approved by God ? 2 Replies
Started by Adeoshun Tolani. Last reply by Teemore May 3, 2009.
SEX IN MARRIAGE 2 Replies
Started by kemi lawal oyeleke. Last reply by Tjilakidzo ndlovu Mar 3, 2009.
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Comment by harry on May 21, 2009 at 8:50 -
Dabira, the situation here is easy, if the two people involved are really friends before entangling themselves as husband and wife. speaking from experience if there is an understanding on the woman's path ,knowing who her man is. she only need to look out for moments that are catchy. when the man is vunerable (weak) to bring up what she want. Opportunity we are told have different faces, so wait for that moment he can't say no to you.
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Comment by Dabira on May 20, 2009 at 19:51 -
What should couple do when love gets sour? A friend of mine complains she no longer loves her hubby because he does not meet her needs as a husband ought to do. I have asked her to talk about the issue with him but she is scared since the guy is at times violent, so as a Christian how do you advice a person in that situation. Thanks
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Comment by harry on May 7, 2009 at 19:46
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(Continuation of my initial write-up)
so how do you empty the bucket? the process of emptying your bucket is as simple as making an honest and thorough list of 10 great things you would like to acknowledge about your ex. the next step will be for you to make a list of 10 great things that you would like your ex to acknowledge about you. these list are not intended to be seen by your ex. these lists are for you and your healing only. writing acknowledgment lists is no easy task, but they're necessary if you are really committed to being ex-free. as you are creating your acknowledgement list, initially, it may be easier to think of negative things to acknowledge about your ex. (to be continued)
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Comment by harry on May 6, 2009 at 17:16
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GETTING OVER YOUR EX...
Heartbreaks does not discriminate, and it hurts like hell. after my first heartbreak, i understood what it was like to cry and long for someone who didn't want to be with me anymore. by my second heartbreak, from firsthand experience, i understood why stalkers stalk, why drinkers dial drunk,why obsession itself becomes a compulsion and why letters written at night should never be sent until they are re-read the next morning. by my third heartbreak i learned that the process of getting over my ex required actions beyond crying, gossiping, ignoring or avoiding. today, after years of studing ontology (the branch of metaphysics that deals with nature of being), i know most people cannot let go of their exes because they haven't properly acknowledged what they are holding on to. when romantic relationships end, it is important that we honestly acknowledge all that we have experienced and all that we hoped to experience during the relationship. acknowlegement is the revealed process that leads to the healing process; it's one of the most powerful completion tools one can use. the acknowledgement process should be managed like a bucket filled with water. you cannot fill the bucket with fresh new water until you first acknowledge the old water that is in the bucket. After acknowledging the old water in the bucket, you will need to pour it out to make space for the new water you will someday be putting into the same bucket.(to be continued)
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Comment by BABATUNDE OLADEJO on May 5, 2009 at 15:49
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may god bless you. You are doing good job. keep it up
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Comment by ebunola adeokun on April 23, 2009 at 12:06
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You look so natural and beautiful.what is the secret behind your beauty?if l may ask? Are you a counsellor or you have an NGO where marital issues are been treated.
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Comment by ebunola adeokun on April 23, 2009 at 12:00
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You so inspired by the issue towards people marital life thereby giving advice to some marital problems that will yield a postive solution.Nowadys, a lot of marriages are crashing, couples separated but one just to be endure , tolerant & ofcourse, patience to see through the years of marriage.Though, am still single, but there are some things one has to look before you leap.One has to put God first in everything one is doing in life so as to see us through becus marriage is a lifetime union.
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Comment by Ayinde Adekunle on March 20, 2009 at 22:19
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My dreams n aspiratuon in Life is 2 alwaz find a need,2b of help n gv advice in issues relating 2 dating.i'm i welcome 2b a member?continue d gud work.remain bless.
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Comment by OYESIJI OMOBOLANLE on February 18, 2009 at 14:59 -
THAT'S VERY THOUGHTFUL OF YOU. GOD WILL CONTINUE TO INSPIRE YOU THE MORE. STAY BLESSED.
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Comment by Modupe Adedeji on February 16, 2009 at 3:08
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