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I think the reason why some ladies get jilted easily is because they don't believe in themselves.

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Lack of trust, living a faked life, pride, inadequate communication and above all women enmacipation. If any of these is found in a lady, she may be jilted. Woman emacipation is simply deviation of women from God's original plans for them and where that happens unheathy contest btw men and women is the next thing that surfaces and the result will be the subject of this discussion.
you wrong bro
Ladies get jilted easily because the purpose in their own mind to go into a relationship is not well defined.They take a relationship as a place of safety where they will be catered for and be on the receiving side and not what they are there to contribute.Another problem is immaturity.they do things based on what others are doing.
i think the ladies out there should say something in there defense,

where are all the ladies?
About 90% of our ladies have very low self esteem. they fall in love sheepishly without thinking twice and make themselves so cheap in the name of wanting to convince the guy to marry them. who said men cherish cheap girls. anything that is too cheap and free has little or no value. to prevent being jilted the ladies shd develop their self esteem and know why they go into any relationship - is it just for fun or serious business. cheers
Oludayo Onasanya said:
This is an interesting topic that many people ran away from. But to be candid, ladies got jilted for many reasons that is best known for the people involved. Most ladies went into relationship simply because of dividend and not a natural love. It is generally believed that true or genuine love does not exist and when either men or women exhibit these characteristics, they become a victim of being jilted. Career, work, civilization and rights had made women to lose their genuine love and when been realized, they turn to say they are jilted. For instance, a guy was dating a lady right from the Secondary school to through their University Education. When they both start working, they lady feels this guys is no longer feet to be for her and eventually going out with high level guys or ‘big boys’ and the young guy discovered this and talked to the lady and she was adamant and the guy stepped down. When this lady realized the ‘big boy’ does not have anything special for her, she now realized the old guy and came back but the guy said no way and the only thing this lady could say was she was jilted, betrayed by her boyfriend. In reality, ladies should be more careful because they have everything to loose when the love trip crash.

true talk
yes i think she is right, because any girl that know her right will not be jilted. i practically agry with her
i thhnk d reason why ladies get jilted is bcos of d lack of proper orientation.there are thing u nd to study b4 a relationship,during it and corrections u hv tn make fast when u detect error.bt ladies now are all about money
hi kemmy . iam olamide aigoro a 300l phs in unilag ds my no 019545990
girls get jiltd bcos dey r fragile.
Well ladies try to be what they re not and 95% of them get dumped due to the kind of female friends they keep
Interesting topic.huummm.
1) loving a guy sooo much dat u can't do without him.2) Communication also matters here i.e talking abt distance relationship.

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