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Why do ladies get jilted easily?
I think the reason why some ladies get jilted easily is because they don't believe in themselves.
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Permalink Reply by Site Admin on -
How do you mean ladies do not believe in themselves? Please expatiate.
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Permalink Reply by adetayo on -
we simply do not get our priorities right as ladies. most of the time the truth of a relationship we are about to go into stare at us right in the eyes but we alwaz chose to ignore it because we are either desperate or downright stupid. we dont access a situation or get our facts together we just get carried away with our emotions or situations and miss it but the truth is alwaz there staring at us at one point or the other. We dont get jilted by guys we ladies alwaz play our cards the very wrong way which tends to make us a loser.
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Permalink Reply by ADAJI HARUNA ALEXANDER on -
women get jilted easily becos they are not focus on the main ingredents of life,they ar only interested in two things in a relationship which is sex and the financial benefit they stand to get from making love to a man,not thinking of building a strong and verile relationship to there benefit and the overall benefit of there spouse and the expected family, as a person i have just walked out of a relationship because my effort at getting the lady to be a focus and responsible woman has failled and as a result the relationship broke up irreconcilliably, ladies be good,open up, be satisfied with one partner expecially now that HIV is ravaging everywhere like a wild fire and be constructive and industrous then you will be independence of your self thereby becoming confident enough to handle a lasting relationship.
Take care ====ALEX
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Permalink Reply by Oludayo Onasanya on -
This is an interesting topic that many people ran away from. But to be candid, ladies got jilted for many reasons that is best known for the people involved. Most ladies went into relationship simply because of dividend and not a natural love. It is generally believed that true or genuine love does not exist and when either men or women exhibit these characteristics, they become a victim of being jilted. Career, work, civilization and rights had made women to lose their genuine love and when been realized, they turn to say they are jilted. For instance, a guy was dating a lady right from the Secondary school to through their University Education. When they both start working, they lady feels this guys is no longer feet to be for her and eventually going out with high level guys or ‘big boys’ and the young guy discovered this and talked to the lady and she was adamant and the guy stepped down. When this lady realized the ‘big boy’ does not have anything special for her, she now realized the old guy and came back but the guy said no way and the only thing this lady could say was she was jilted, betrayed by her boyfriend. In reality, ladies should be more careful because they have everything to loose when the love trip crash.
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Permalink Reply by Kola on
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Inconsistency: i have a boyfriend already, i simply want a platonic relationship on the side, which in most cases, is a lie. As d friendship grows, u would discover her grip becomes tighter and if as a man, yuv gotten to the "juke box" already, yu would simply conclude that if she can be this unfaithful to her so-called bf, she'd also be unfaithful to you when u assume that position
"A-1-Nite-stand: self-explanatory
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Permalink Reply by ASHOW VILLA on -
hi baby how u doing?
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Permalink Reply by adesina on -
1 of d reason is dat most ladies do not believe in honest men rather they like men with sugar coated mouth and at the end of d day they end up 2 regret and cry foul. 4rm adesina.
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Permalink Reply by Rashidat on -
lack of communication...some pple are too weak in building relationships. you can neva get what u want 100%. u neeed to build ur relationship to what u desire. its a lot of hard work. men are like babies and a woman needs to work well on her man and not just get tired of his ego or whatever. it is only the strongest willed, smartest women that get their partners proposing to them nowadays.
another thing is that some girls want to compete with their male counterparts. the truth is, tradition has made a woman to be under a man, so no matter how rich or pwerful u are, you are still supposed to respect support and submit yourself totally.
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