NEED HELP. PLS HELP A CONFUSSES MAN

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Permalink Reply by Momoh Felix Sumaila on October 8, 2009 at 4:41pm

Thanks You sir. You Guys are the best. I am very very greatful.

Bless You

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Permalink Reply by DieGame *Mr.Tangible* Ope' Moses on October 13, 2009 at 3:37pm

Felix..............i would say, there would come a time when u think everything has finished, but thats just d begining...Felix they think u cant be anything but now u r somebody, this is simple bro, just keep ur head high.

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Permalink Reply by Nk Angel on October 15, 2009 at 11:23am

A Friend in need is a friend in deed, it is now good for you and they remember that u exist but when u were nobody, u re not recognised. Pls forget them all and look for a fresh friend cos those friends of urs will still discriminate if it happen that u go down again but God forbid.
Felix, this is the time to show them Levels and ignore their request

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Permalink Reply by Dayo Edunjobi on November 4, 2009 at 3:31pm

Hey Felix, looking through this discussion.
I think you got some advise already but I like
you to still keep this the discussion live by
asking what you decide or how did you finally
handle this if you by any chance have.

I have a contrary opinion that will bring in a new
dimension but only after you response.

Cheers!

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Permalink Reply by Momoh Felix Sumaila on November 4, 2009 at 4:29pm

My Brother I had make up my mind not to Accept any of them. I had seen someone who I have been disturbing for the past Two Months, but I did Not tell her my True Identity that I'm a Banker. I just want to See if she will love me for Who I'm not for what I've achieved. Although she has been proving Sturbon, But what I ve see so far is that she is very decent

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Permalink Reply by Dayo Edunjobi on November 4, 2009 at 5:29pm

Well, that interesting to know. I guest we need
not to worry our dear head about those junks anymore
sin you have dumped the where they belonged; THE BIN.

For, the lucky pretty on board, here is my advise.
Be Patient and Honest with all your approach and
intentions, and make sure to get involved in her
everything if you have the chanced.

You know, like if the's to go to bed your sweet msg is
the last thing she saw, only to wake and the first thing
she's seeing is you wonderful wakeup msg. You know
things like thats. For now, just Keep away the MONEY and
bring in the CARING and AFFECTIONATE.

Good Luck!

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Permalink Reply by Momoh Felix Sumaila on November 5, 2009 at 6:36am

Thanks My Bro. I am relly determined to Spend my life with this. I will fix a date on Saturday with her. I think I've won the heart of the elderly brother and two yonger sister. I give you a feedback on monday about everyting.

Bless You

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Permalink Reply by Dayo Edunjobi on November 5, 2009 at 8:22am

Hmm! Thats the spirit, what more can I can Good Luck!

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Permalink Reply by Momoh Felix Sumaila on November 9, 2009 at 6:34pm

My Bro (Dayo) I'm the most Luckiest and happy Man on earth. You already Know what I what to say. She Just say YES YES YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! We went out for a date on Saturday and it was nt easy. After every Talk and Talk, she only tell me that I should just let her think about it and I agree. But did you know the most funniest thing is dat she had a plan in her mind as at then.Yesterday Sunday She secreetly snick into the church I attend to know if really what I told her about me was true and I did not know. As God May have it, I"m the Lead Vocalist During Chior Ministation and i also Took Praises and Worship.So it was after Chuch Service that I saw a note through an User Bearing Her Name that She Wants to See Me at About 6.00 P.M in the Evning that She is just Leaving the Church with Her Yonger Sister. So I delay alittle to 6.30 P.M Before Going to thier House. Mere looking at her eyes I knew from the Immediately that She has sumting that is disturbing Her.Guess What, after Like Twenty Munits Strow, She Ask me to stop, So I was Looking at Her and She said I LOVE FELIX. SO I PRETENDS NOT TO HEAR HER AND SHE REPEAT IT AGIAN, FELIX PLEASE DONT BREAK MY HEART BCOS I HAD NEVER BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP BEFORE.MY BRO. i MADE A PROMISE TO HER AND IF THINGS WORKS OUT, I WILL MARRY HER BEFORE MARCH NEXT YEAR.
I'M VERY HAPPY THAT SHE ACCEPTED ME.
TELL YOU MORE LATER

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Permalink Reply by Dayo Edunjobi on November 11, 2009 at 10:18am

Ol Boy! I I'm dearly HAPPY 4 you, I'm not too surprise with the
outcome of this adventure. The first time I read your first
msg in this discussion I knew you are a guy with a good heart.
You know it's kindda hard for a lady to resist a guy like you.

However, I must be frank with you, you are just 1% into your
journey and it's not time for full celebration yet. It's time to sit
down and begin to work on yourself with the mind set that
you'r not the FELIX you used to know yourself to be.

You are now a FELIX who has a responsibility to look after, who
now answers to someone and therefore cannot afford to do
anything he likes or just go anywhere he likes without thinking
of how it impact on the person he now answers to.

You have to be ready to be subject to scrutiny when you seems
to be too busy with your Highly Engaging Banking Duties, even
though it seems obvious.

Be ready to be nagged a little, you'd be better lucky if it doesn't
come than to be sorry for not haven't been prepared for it.

You now don't only have to be honest about the places you go,
you also have to be honest about the things you do there.

You have to know that assumption is now your best enemy.

Say what you mean in plain, clear & easily understandable language,
so as to regret saying it.

You have to know that honesty and communication is not an
option for you any longer.

If you don't know what sacrifice truly is, you better start
leaning its true meaning.

Moreso, It would help a great deal if you could begin to see
yourself as a married man, not who you used to be .
That should help you to better position your mindset,
your associations, your actions and your communications.

And contrary to what many people might tell you, I say this is not
the time to pretend and try to be diplomatic about everything.
You just have to be plain and frank, it might seems hurts sometimes
but it helps for the future.

Sorry, if I seem to bore you with some long lines here but I just
feel like pouring them down honestly the way they came to me.

ABOVE ALL, LOVE GOD, FEAR HIM AND MAKE SURE TO SEEK HIS
OPINION ON THE THIS YOUR NEW FOUND LOVE.

If I say I wish you Gudluck! That would have been an understatement.
So I'll just multiply it by 3. You can help me with the answer........lol


Cheers!

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Permalink Reply by adeyefa temitope on March 9, 2010 at 2:42am

U SHOULD GO AND THINK YOURSELF.IF NINE ARE AFTER YOU BEFORE YOU GET MARRIED THEN YOU HAVE A PROBLEM COS 20 WILL COM AFTER MARRIAGE.U JUST HAVE TO GET SERIOUS AND BE CLOSER TO GOD AND DEVELOP YOUR CARRIER.LIFE DOES NOT END IN ZENITH BANK.

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Permalink Reply by Momoh Felix Sumaila on March 9, 2010 at 6:37am

My Brothers and Friends i want to used this opportunity to thank you all for you volume of contribution towards this problem which I can say is now the past. I held to most of the advise and it works out for me. And to be frank with guys you have to forgive me for not informing you guys about my latest success which god had done for me. My Traditional Marriage will be 13th of March few days from Now and the court wedding is 19th of March as well as the Church Wedding 20th of March. I didnt let you guys down, My Joy of my heart didnt not know who I am before she fall in love with me. it was after Four Two Months she new. I will Send Ouu Photos to you Guys after the Completion of the Wedding. My Leave starts 2mmorrow.
God Bless You all.

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