Distance is not the end of the world in a relationship ..
Distance cannot, and will not hurt a bond between two people that is based on mutual respect, trust, commitment, and love.
Although you may feel like you are losing faith in your relationship at times, hold fast and trust your heart!
I, like you, truly believe that love & relationships are what make your life special, and that ones built on love & understanding are always worth preserving, regardless of the miles that may separate two people.
All across the world, there are couples just like you who are crazy about each other but are forced by circumstance to live apart...
It is d ideal for some people but for others it is a flop. Relationship whether short or long distance depends on the parties that are involved. Just take ur time and find out what works for you.
Permalink Reply by AMA on April 28, 2009 at 1:16pm
well, it could be challenging to keep a long-distance relationship i must confess(av been there)there are times u feel so alone,like ur all alone in d world.what has kept us going is sour resolve to c something worthwhile come out of all d patience, inconvenience,etc involved in keeping the 'spark-of-love' alive.any relationship is dependent on d resolve of the people involved 2 survive n thrive.
TO me i do not see anything wrong in keeping a long distance relationship...it depends on what the 2 people feel fpr each other,they can always create time to be together...i think is fun...i have not been opportune to be in that kinda of relationship..i will give it a try soon
long distance relationship is like swimming against very heavy current.On own experience is succcide to ve a unreasonable distance relationship...l ve tried it b4,it is fatal and l dnt pray to ve it again in my life...not even in my family.
Hmmmmmmmm, long distance relationship.
To me long distance relationship is not ideal, it is not good, its hell! in long distance relationship it compelles somebody to take drastic measures, it is challenging, there are times you need somebody to help, talk to or even need to assist you either emotionally or pyscologically, if your guy is far from you and these things are what you need and your guy is not around tell me what will become of you? even as i am not staying with my parents, it is hell bcos there are times i need to talk to my parents but bcos of distance i will not be able, even if u call them on phone it will not be like u talking to them physically \.
Distance relationship explains why many people break up, some people will say their guy or girl will never betray them, but before u know it distance will become a barrier, that is why i believe in this proverb that says"OUT OF SIGHT IS OUT OF MIND" I DONT ADVICE ANYBODY TO ENGAGE IN LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP
where distant relatioship is inevitable that will be clearly understood. however, it is very important to consider how long the parties involved have been together. you can clearly diffrentiate anxiety that could likely be generated from newly married couples staying apart compared to couples that have been together for years but forced to leave apart due to work mobility